The Balance of Truths and Lies during Courtship.

            A male friend told me about courtship, He says, there is always a balance between truth and lie during the process. Males need to get a woman’s heart by telling his true intensions, and with that, he acts nice to her like he cares for her a lot and tell her things that will make her feel she’s special, and there enters the balance of truth and lie. He needs to tell her some facts about his life that is definitely true, and just to catch her attention, lies came running fast through their thoughts and utter them all with sweet, gentle, and a convincing voice. It is the attention of a woman that males need to get, and when a woman shows attentiveness with whatever the man is saying, they tend to expand their story even if it’s not true anymore. They sometimes twist the story to hide those unpleasant parts which may let them down and just to impress the woman with its twist. While on the process of courting, who would want to tell a girl that he’s feet stinks? (I hope you got the logic) no one would, right? 

            The process is proven when the woman says yes to him. And when they are already together, he let’s the woman know the truth all by herself and they will just laugh at it. Some things are embarrassing and some are not that is why men got to lie about them, but when a woman is in love, most of the time she has a heart that says “I love him for whoever he is and whatever he is and has”. The man also let the woman know all the truth by telling her all truth about him, and with that, the woman will love the man more because she will feel she’s very special to the man for she will think that his man has done everything just to get her and be with her and have her even if it takes lying (usually males tell their woman all exact words for her to think about it and make her feel and understand his intentions over and over again). Actually, those are sweet lies anyway. And again, the balance is proven.

            This article doesn’t point any negative notions for males courting women, because it is a sweet process even if it’s called lying, and ladies knows that very well, they just cant figure out what story is true and what is not, so they just have to listen and go with the flow especially if they liked the guy the first time they saw them. They never mind the lying part, but guys need to balance them weather they like it or not. And I would like to share this thought a friend told me " Weather sweet or white lies, they are still called lies.

            I am not saying that it is 100% effective (I am not trying to teach you here). These are just facts that I have heard from friends who actually says it’s true. And to those who were not successful in having their woman's YES while courting, well maybe she just can’t love you. Maybe it’s just that love did not choose you. And no matter how hard you balance your truths and your lies, but if she doesn’t like having you in her life, then she really doesn’t like to have you in her life.

For males; have you noticed your process now?

For Ladies; have you noticed your response?


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